Quilter on the Run

Quilter On the Run

Quilting Instructor, Professional Quilter, Always on the Run

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Author Designer Teacher Kris Vierra

old sewing quilting magazine modern woman

Treat Yourself

“In this generation what every modern woman knows is the value of a smart well-groomed appearance.  The modern woman is demanding… She wants her clothes to fit well… She loves fine fabrics… But she is resourceful and practical. ” I found this old pamphlet when I was reorganizing my studio.  At first, I thought is was kind of funny.  The idea of the ad on the back targeting woman because their #1 and #2 pastimes were reading and sewing was so far from today’s reality, that I didn’t even know what to think about it.

As I kept sorting my studio, my mind kept going back to the idea of a woman wearing fitted clothes. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not advocating  women go back to wearing dresses, petticoats and stockings every where they go. Or that they not leaving the house without a hat and matching purse and gloves. But maybe we should reconsider some of the things we do wear.

I personally right now am not all that happy with my appearance.  I need to lose around 30 pounds. I’m not happy with the way the extra weight makes me look and feel.  I think I’m probably not alone in my response to these feelings tending to wear bigger, baggier clothes, or even sweatpants.  There was a time when I would not have been caught dead outside of the house in a pair of sweats. Now I don’t even think twice about it.

When I was younger, back in high school and college, I never even thought about my weight.  I did, however, think about how I dressed.  I didn’t wear dresses, or nylons, or particularly fancy clothes, but I had my own “style”.  I’ll admit is was a little out there for Grand Island, NE, where I grew up. But it made me feel cool, and different.  Granted these are not unique feelings for someone of that age. Somewhere along the line, I think we forget why they are important.

me and my horse lady

This is a picture of me and my horse lady.  I’m about 21 or 22.  I used to love wearing hats. Never bothering with what anyone else thought about how I looked. I just cared about how my clothes made me feel.

Now that I’m older and my roles have changed; mother, wife, etc., I tend to forget how good special clothes can make me feel.  I have been telling myself I’m not going to get any new clothes until I lose the weight. Maybe this is the wrong way to look at things.  Having something that fits you well, is bright and or colorful, or just flows really nice can make you feel beautiful and special. No matter what shape you are in at the moment.  This, in turn, makes you want to do more things and continue to look and feel better.

When I get up in the morning and put on my ball cap and sweats and go down to my studio to work, I know that I won’t be dealing with other people, but I need to remind myself that I’m not (and shouldn’t be) dressing for other people, but for myself.

 

I guess what I’m trying to say is that I think we need to learn to appreciate ourselves as we are now, not as how we were or might be someday.  I’m not suggesting that I stop trying to improve, (I’m going to keep trying to lose weight and get in shape if it kills me) but that I need to learn to be happy with myself as I am.  I am going to make a point of dressing in things that fit better and that make me feel beautiful no matter what size I am, or who can see me, and as I lose the weight, I am going to celebrate the figure I am achieving, even if it isn’t the one that I am ultimately trying to reach.

To that end, I am going to wear my coat “A little bit Steampunk” and my hats whenever I feel like it, and not just when I am dressing up for a special event. I like the way the make me feel and everybody deserves to feel beautiful and special, no matter what shape you are in right now.  So my challenge to everyone for the week is to find something that makes you feel like a Queen and wear it with style as a truly modern woman.

kris vierra and tiger at the national quilt museum
kris vierra little bit steampunk quilted jacket

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